Monday, February 16, 2015

Heaven's Touch at Arca's yard cafe!!!

Arca's Yard Cafe <3

I was intrigued when I heard something about Arca’s yard café.  So I decided to follow it on Facebook. When I saw some pictures on their page, I was amazed, that kind of place is what we were looking for. Arca’s yard café is unique and comfortable; this would be an ideal place to visit with a group of friends.

Arca’s yard café is located at 777 tiptop, Ambuclao, Road, Baguio City. Actually we were a bit panicked when we were trying to find this place until when we saw the huge tea pot in front the gate, its Arca’s yard café’s profile picture. Ha-ha.  It is a bit far from town but easily accessible. We came to this place with a fare of less than 90 pesos from SM.

Inside this cozy cafe, there is a mini museum and a large free library, but if you are not fond of reading books you can enjoy looking at some antique furniture.

We tried the Arca's sweet potato ala mode, bread with dip and Arca’s cloud tea (hot tea with cream on top) Hmmm Delicious!!! 

Though we have waited for few minutes, the waiting time would never be a problem with all the paintings and pictures on the wall. You can also enjoy the scenic view at the veranda. Prices are reasonable relative to the quality of the food. Arca’s sweet potato ala mode costs only 95 pesos, bread with dip for 75 pesos and Arca’s cloud tea costs 75 pesos. They don't have meals on their menu, but they serve it if you ask them.

So if you want to try a different café from those usual ones, Arca’s yard café for me, is one of the best here in Baguio city.  You can have a relaxed afternoon with friends over tea. yum yum!!!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

You will never be SAD at SAGE!!!

Good food cozy ambiance? Then you must try SAGE restaurant!!!

First of all I would like to thank Rogan Coilan for giving me a title phrase that would make this blog more attractive. Though it sounds a bit "childish" just like my first food blog, (You will never be grumpy at Grumpy Joe). I think it's not a bad idea to rhyme words. rhyming helps to make the words ring in your head.

Since Valentines’ day is coming. I guess some of you are thinking of a nice place to dine. I highly recommend Sage restaurant. It is worth-visiting because of its cozy ambiance. It is located at Military cutoff Rd. Baguio City.

When we went here, we were able to get comfortable seats at the couch area because it was not yet dinner time. It felt cozy, maybe because of the lighting and decors. I can see flowers everywhere and the Lavender theme made me feel at peace.

I and my boyfriend are not fond of eating appetizers before the main course. So to start off, we ordered spare ribs, seafood pasta and baked macaroni roll for the main.

I am not into heavy meals but according to my boyfriend, the spare ribs with a sauce was tasty and Juicy, He liked the sweet sauce but if you put too much, it may cause you to feel jaded. The serving is pretty BIG and the price is around 240-260 pesos but it is worth it.

The baked macaroni roll was also delicious but I couldn't eat even half of it. I don’t enjoy Italian style that much I prefer Filipino-style just like that “Jollibee-spaghetti taste”. ha-ha.  It costs 140-150 pesos only, it is affordable.
The Shrimp in pesto pasta is another dish that is inexpensive but super yummy. I absolutely loved this dish, the taste of the seafood really came through. it's 180 pesos.

We recommended SAGE to these two lovely people. 

For the desert, I ordered strawberry cheesecake. My boyfriend doesn't like sweets, so he just waited for me to finish my desert. The cake was the yummiest cheesecake I have ever tried. I like the strawberry toppings and the plating was fantastic. The rich taste of the cheesecake soothes my soul gently. The brown crust matched the cheese, so the taste was adequate. I felt like I was in heaven. (we have different opinions and I am not exaggerating).

Sad to say that their fruit shake was inexpensive but boring. I hope they can improve this one.

We were only able to try a few dishes, but I saw a huge potential in this restaurant.The Food was great. Staffs were attentive, efficient, and courteous. I would love to visit this place often!!! 

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

You will never be grumpy at Grumpy Joe!!!

Grumpy Joe Restaurant

I and my boyfriend can be considered as “food-explorers” because we want to taste different food from different restaurants.

One day, I was craving for Italian food, so I asked one of my friends to recommend a restaurant which serves mouth-watering pizzas and pastas.  She suggested the Grumpy Joe restaurant. I became curious because of its name. Until I realized that we will never be grumpy at GRUMPY JOE because they serve the best Italian-American food. This restaurant is located at Leonard Wood Rd. Baguio City near Pink sisters’ convent.

At first I was a bit disappointed. The restaurant was full of customers at that time, so we have waited for 30 minutes outside to just get a table. (probably because of its good food, it made me think that anything that is worth-having is definitely worth-waiting for).

Here's the list of what we have ordered for dinner,

Spaghetti costs 160 pesos only and I can say that it is good for 2-3 persons. You will certainly love the food here especially if you are into Filipino style. Their spaghetti is one of the most delicious spaghetti I have ever eaten. It’s a bit sweet but you will never feel jaded after eating too much of it. The serving is BIG!!!

Pesto pasta costs 160 pesos.This is superb. I highly recommend this one; this food is great if you want to satisfy your appetite. (I LOVE CREAMY PESTO PASTA)

Combo meals:

Rice, Buffalo wings and potato salad costs 150 pesos.This is quite ordinary for me; it didn't amaze me that much.

Spaghetti,Pizza,Buffalo wings and French fries costs 150 pesos.I recommend this one If your budget is tight. This food can fill your stomach. One meal is enough to occupy your mouth and your tummy.


Pizzas cost around 400-500 pesos. (It depends on the toppings)
The middle of the pizza was soggy and seemingly undercooked, while the toppings are pretty crispy and delicious. It was ok but next time I will make sure that they will cook the dough well.
Smoothies cost around 120-145 pesos.
Yogurt smoothie is more expensive of course. This is one of the reasons why we always come back here. They have the yummiest smoothie ever.

 Onion rings costs 120 pesos
I don't even like onions, but these taste so good with Garlic mayo!!!

 So if you want to taste something new and you like a large and sumptuous meal(Just like us),
visit Grumpy Joe and enjoy its yummy treats.
 Store hours:10am-9pm daily.

Monday, February 9, 2015


“Nakakahawa ang DEPRESSION” 

Whenever I am happy, there's a little voice telling me that I shouldn't be, and making me feel like I shouldn't be happy at all. Whenever I go out with friends and do something that I enjoy, a woman used to tell me that, “TOO MUCH HAPPINESS CAN MAKE YOU UNHAPPY”.

According to her, we often experience sadness than happiness (she’s such a pessimist, isn’t she?). This kind of attitude is what I’ve learned from her since when I was young. So I used a motto that would really match my personality and I even wrote this in our High school year book.
“Expect the worst so you won’t be disappointed”

 When I feel happy, I usually hold it back because I think sooner; I will be experiencing unbearable sadness. When we have a family problem, I know I can’t help with that and it causes me to have a very low self-esteem or self-hatred and it makes me feel that I don’t deserve to be happy. I know that depression can cause these types of feelings, so I am writing this “para di ako mabaliw” hahaha. 

see lonely sad pain picture and wallpaper
I can’t consider myself as a less fortunate because I have enough money to buy what I want, I save up for myself, I don’t have debt  and I live in a good roof. I hope there will be NO misunderstanding here coz I don’t think I am bragging. I am sure that there are some people who are causing me to feel this way. I am surrounded by people who are so depressed!!! “nakakahawa ang depression”. So I came up with a GOOD solution. I HAVE TO GET AWAY! ( haha parang madali noh?,) they need sympathy. They need me but I am not keen on handling people who are depressed. So I came up with a BEST solution, which is to PRAY for them. That is the best thing I can do. There's enough struggling and suffering in life so there is nothing wrong about being happy when you are. May mga tao kasi na pag masaya ka, tapos sila malungkot, Nagagalit... bat ganon? Pwede mo silang damayan, pero you shouldn't sacrifice your own happiness. You know OPTIMISM is a good vibes magnet. Avoid negative self-talk, it doesn't bring happiness.

Friday, February 6, 2015

BSU-Open University Culture. (Collectivism vs. Individualism, why Neither is "Best"?)

BSU-OU culture

I am an MDC student at Benguet State OPEN University. I started to change my points of view and be more aware of its culture when I enrolled here and met my classmates and professors. We all know that Open Universities aim to extend educational opportunities to all. We also call it as “distance-learning”.  In an open and distance mode of learning, the students do not attend classes in classrooms regularly.  At BSU-OU, students are given course modules and they meet their professors and classmates once a month.  Additional consultations with the professors are also done by any modes of communication, i.e. through email, telephone or text messaging. With this arrangement, students are therefore able to gain new knowledge and skills wherever they are whether at work, at home or even while on travel, and at their own pace and time. Though, we only meet each other once a month, I can say that our one-to-one connections with each other are the foundation for change. I had a chance to understand how this culture affected my whole life. I noticed that most school improvement plans concentrate on academic achievement goals only. But Benguet State University is far from that, it is focused not only on the improvement of the students academically, but also socially. This school has a “welcoming atmosphere”.  Our professors treat us as professionals. I remember one of the professors said that, “you are professionals so we have to treat you as professionals”. They are so approachable and they make us feel more comfortable.  In some schools professors act “mean” or “arrogant” in the classroom just to show how knowledgeable they are or portrayed that they are so much smarter than us, I know that’s just a part of their teaching style but I think students will feel intimidated by them and it will be hard to ask something in confidence. Students want professors who are like-able and can authentically motivate them. One more thing that I like about the culture in this school, the staffs are very friendly too, they greet “good morning” to everyone who enters the building. They even offer free coffee and Pandesal as well. Ha-ha. This kind of culture and school environment has created a cordial atmosphere in Benguet State Open University. Since we seldom meet each other, exchanging messages became more common. Unlike in other regular schools that you will really need to work hard on your own to achieve better grades, here in Open University, we treat each other as “friends” and not as competitors. It made me realize that relationship is very powerful. This kind of culture was discussed to us on our first day. They told us about the Open University system. So I therefore conclude that Culture should be uncovered, openly and purposely discussed, assessed, and developed. I learned a lot of things since I enrolled here. I learned how to be more sociable, confident on expressing my thoughts and Ideas. I will never regret studying Development Communication in this school. I know that despite the obvious advantages of distance learning, there are problems as well. Perhaps it could be the quality of education and the attitudes of the instructors, students and administrators, but in my case I am fully satisfied with it. I know that they are doing their best to update us and give what we deserve.

Individualism vs. Collectivism

In BSU-OU, We have a common goal; we help each other so that we can finish our Master’s degree “together” after 4 semesters. We can consider this as a practice of collectivism, but Individualism is still more important. We can’t graduate if we don’t have self-determination. We can’t depend on our classmates but we always show concern to each other and give a hand if we could. In our

Communication and Culture subject with Mr. Dacawe, we learned about Collectivism and Individualism. According to him, Collectivism is the practice or principle of giving a group priority over each individual in it while Individualism is a habit or principle of being Independent and Self-reliant.  I have also read that Collectivism is a social psychological term that relates to the manner in which humans identify themselves and prioritize their goals. Collectivism, which is the opposite of individualism, focuses on the priorities of the group and not the individual. In a collectivist society, people identify themselves with the goals of the group much more so than the goals of individuals. Collectivism also focuses on things such as fitting into the group, behaving in ways that are line with social norms, group solidarity, and gaining a sense of identity from being part of the group.  I have also researched about the advantages and disadvantages of Individualism and Collectivism. One of the advantages of Individualism is a person can foster his ability to perform well individually and find strength within themselves to overcome obstacles. On the other hand it has disadvantages as well.  Individualism does not allow other people to experience a person’s talent or creativity. They have more problems with finding good friends because they don’t care about other’s opinions. It can lead to difficulties with social life. I think Learning to cooperate with others is what builds character, friendship and important life skills. While individualism has advantages and disadvantages, Collectivism has them too. Collectivism allows each person to take care and help one another to fulfill a certain goal. It can help with the achievement of the whole community but because of this practice some people tend to be lazy, they become dependent to the other group members. In my opinion “neither is best”. As I said before, Collectivism is important because it associates with socialism. It is necessary that everyone supports each other so we can grow as a community. On the other hand Individualism is required as well; we also need to flourish independently.  They both have their benefits and detraction. 

A collectivist society

In my hometown in Pampanga, we live in a compound residence together with my mother’s relatives and neighbors. I can say that the practice of collectivism is being applied there because the sense of belonging is very important. The people in this compound residence are willing to make sacrifices for the betterment of everyone. I can still remember when I had my 18th birthday party 7 years ago all of our neighbors helped in the preparation. Some of them donated money; some bought beverages and decorated our place. We also do the same thing when others need our support. We often ask others opinions as well and let them give their realistic advice when it comes to decision making. It might be right because I believe in the saying that “Two heads are better than one”. Some people also say that sometimes collectivism might be better than individualism if it is being applied correctly. Different people have different strengths and point of view. Hence, more people share their ideas that must concern more dimensions and aspects. Two people working together have a better chance of solving a problem than one person working alone. I admit they had a good point on that, but honestly speaking, I didn't enjoy this situation that much; I felt that I wasn't free. For me personal freedom is certainly something to be appreciated and enjoyed. When I was in my hometown, I always think of what other people say. It seems to me that I am responsible of all of them. If I don’t include them in my plans, they would say that I am so ungrateful. I want to feel less pressure and judgment and have more ability to feel free but I guess it would be difficult if I stay there, so I had to move on.  I need to stop worrying about them for the mean time because I should start worrying about what is best for me “I’m not getting younger you know”. I know that the practice of collectivism helped me become a better person, but I have to build self-determination to be able to succeed in life. That is one of the reasons why I decided to move here in Baguio City. I want to decide for myself, I need others’ advice but of course, I always consider myself as the master of my own fate and the captain of my own soul. Since I experienced being a collectivist and I learned a lot from it, now I think is time for me to become an individualist and strive harder on my own. 

My opinion about Individualism

As I mentioned, in my hometown in Pampanga especially in our compound, people are collectivist.  Here in Baguio city, since most of us came from different provinces and cities and we don’t know each other that much, people tend to be more individualist. We often greet each other but we tend not to have a long term relationship. Here, everyone is "on their own" because we are too busy doing our own activities. Actually, we live close to each other but we have different lives. I don’t care about them, they don’t care about me. Life is simple because of the practice of individualism. I don’t need to impress or please everyone, and I shouldn't expect something in return. My experience here in Baguio city helped me to become a Liberal person; in this place I felt the sense of freedom. I will not rule or be ruled, I will not be a master or a slave. Being an individualist doesn't mean being selfish. It made me realized that every one of us has individual rights and I learned to understand and respect it. Of course I know that “strong” Individualism has disadvantages, Individualist could have smaller social support networks, lower emotional competence, lower intentions to seek help from a variety of sources and poorer mental health that can lead to suicide. I am not a strong individualist, because I believe that we should know how to balance collectivism and individualism. The reason why I chose to be alone for now is because I don’t want to be dependent on anyone, I learned from a collectivist community and I appreciate it a lot, but now I want to experience facing and solving my problems on my own, I am definitely sure that I can be a better person and It can make me feel stronger. I want to find out what makes me unique and develop it. If I am in a group of people I think I will never be noticed since all of us are just the same. I have to set myself apart so that I can discover myself more. Naturally we need to be surrounded with people who know our worth, I guess, I don’t need too many people to be happy and successful, just few real ones who can appreciate me for exactly who I am, will be enough for me. And one more thing, I can accept advice but I will never let anyone run my life, even my parents who spent money for my education. 

Individualism is congruent to Egoism

We also have different meaning of individualism. For some, the meaning of individualism is being selfish. Have you noticed? When someone needs help, especially when it comes to financial support, a good example for this is the Ice Bucket challenge, we are aware that it is a practice of collectivism, but since many people are selfish, they showed an act of a “strong” individualism. If you can still remember the Facebook newsfeed was flooded by those people who filmed having a bucket of ice water poured on their heads. Most of them didn’t donate, how did I know? My friends did that!!! But when I asked them if they donated money for those people who are suffering from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), they said NO. They can only give sympathy not donations, and we are not even sure if there is sincerity in their action. According to Mr. Joey De Leon, Don’t nominate if you don’t donate. Perhaps, some were not serious about it; they only did it because they wanted to get other’s attention in other words “Pour to impress” ha-ha. That was for their own benefit, they wanted to be noticed and not because they desired to support that ALS foundation. Individualism is similar with egoism (the celebration of the individual for his efforts and abilities) they don’t want to help, they just promote their desires. For Americans, they also have other meaning of individualism. For them, Individualism is liberty; it is the freedom of everyone but it doesn’t mean that they would not give a hand to those who are in-need. 

Philippines’ setting

As a Filipino, I find it difficult to describe us as either collectivists or individualists given the way some of us behave and think. I assume Filipinos tend to follow a religious belief, like Christian philosophy and Christianity is more on a practice of collectivism. One more thing, there are so many Filipinos who depend on the government. They are expecting that the elected leaders will be the one to lift the status of the economy and the status of their lives regardless of what they need to share as individuals. This action can give the people a habit of trying to get something for free, that’s why many Filipinos are Lazy. On the other hand I can also see that most of the Filipinos care about their own interests first before others. I therefore conclude that “Neither is BEST”. We need others and we also need self-determination in order to succeed as a whole or as an individual. 


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