Real Talk:
 |
| http://www.coverphotolibrary.com/digital-art/envy-facebook-style/ |
You need to work on your own happiness. If you find yourself
looking at others’ achievements, you are letting them control the way you feel
about yourself. Envy removes our understanding that being glad for another’s
success and happiness does not affect or weaken our personal accomplishment and
contentment.
We are all aware that Facebook causes envy that can lead to
depression. Facebook is a social networking site that allows everybody to stay
connected with others and to share interesting and important aspects of our
lives. However, at this moment I noticed that Facebook is being used to brag
about achievements, relationship and financial status. We can also say that, it
is one of the causes why we feel dissatisfied with our lives. I also must admit
that I was one of these people who became addicted to Facebook since I always
post pictures of dates with my boyfriend, at first I don’t mean to brag at all until I
realized that this is how I look like to others and this is how others look like to me.
Facebook can be a fun and healthy activity if users take
advantage of the site just to keep in-touch with family and old friends and to
share interesting and important events in our lives.” But If Facebook posts
changes your positive mood into a negative one every day because you can see others’ travel experiences,
promotion, happy relationships, and financial status, sometimes even beautiful
faces, then I guess you should try not to check your news-feed every now and
then. If you can’t control yourself, I think the best thing to do is to delete
your Facebook account and stay away from your gadgets for a while until you
overcome your insecurities.
So if you use Facebook often but you always compare
yourself to others and gives you hurtful feelings then Facebook is not a good
idea to stay connected with your friends. It is important for us to be aware
that this site has many risks that can give us negative feelings.
